Two books. One framework.
The Stress Debt Economy is the argument underneath both. The first applies it to high performance generally. The second applies it to the transition that hits capable women at the peak of their careers.

Infinite Capacity
You are delivering, but on withdrawals rather than deposits. Every fire fought, every skipped recovery, every reaction swallowed. It compounds. This is the framework for clearing it and building capacity that holds under load.
Start here →
The Calmest Woman in the Room
Your brain stalls. Your patience goes. Things that were effortless now cost you. You have not lost your edge, you have lost access to it. This is the stress layer sitting underneath the hormonal one, and what to do about it.
Start here →Start with the one you are living in.
If the pressure is the problem, start with Infinite Capacity. If the pressure has changed shape in the last few years and you are in your forties or fifties, start with The Calmest Woman in the Room. Most readers end up with both.